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Lessons on dating safety

Public Meeting Check: dating lesson

Real moments. A few choices. Words that work.

Say no to the car. Practice the moment in a short Surefoot lesson.

Practice lessons

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Read this lesson as text

You agreed to meet a dating app match at a park, but they now suggest going to their car to grab something.

You feel unsure about going to their car, but they seem nice.

What do you do?

  • Stay at the park
  • Go to their car

Recommended

Stay at the park

Keep the meeting in a public place to stay safe. A match who pressures you to go somewhere private is giving you information about their boundaries.

Your next step

Say no to the car

Words you can use

“I'm good here”

Sources: RAINN, Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Love is respect, National Domestic Violence Hotline

If something is happening now

Call 911. Stay with the person and follow the dispatcher’s instructions.