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Lessons on leaving a situation
Leaving a situation: leaving a situation lesson
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Tell a friend and arrange a ride you choose. Practice the moment in a short Surefoot lesson.
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It is past midnight at a party off campus. You came with your friends, and they are having a great time.
Your friends want to stay at the party, but you are ready to go home.
What do you do?
- Tell a friend and arrange a ride you choose.
- Stay until everyone else is ready.
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Tell a friend and arrange a ride you choose.
Move toward trusted support or an exit and arrange a ride or escort you choose. You may leave even when friends want to stay.
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Tell a friend and arrange a ride you choose.
Words you can use
“I am heading out. Can you help me get home?”
Sources: RAINN
Questions about “Leaving a situation”
Why is it helpful to choose your own ride when leaving early?
Choosing your own ride ensures you stay in control of your route and safety when you are ready to leave a party.
Source: RAINN
How can I tell my friends I am ready to leave?
You can clearly state your choice to leave by saying, "I am heading out. Can you help me get home?"
Source: RAINN
What should I do if my friends refuse to leave with me?
You may leave even when your friends want to stay, so long as you inform a trusted person and secure your own ride.
Source: RAINN
Why should I avoid staying at a party just because my friends want to stay?
Staying against your wishes can place you in an uncomfortable situation, whereas leaving when ready protects your safety and well-being.
Source: RAINN
How can I help a friend who wants to leave a party early?
You can support a friend who wants to leave by helping them arrange a reliable ride and ensuring they head out safely.
Source: RAINN
Last updated October 11, 2026.