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Responding to Group Pressure: helping a friend lesson
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Offer a supportive way out or find outside help if a group is pressuring someone. Practice the moment in a short Surefoot lesson.
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You are at an off-campus house for an initiation event. A group of older members is surrounding a new member, pressuring them to drink a large cup of liquid while telling everyone else to stay back.
The group leaders tell you it is just a tradition and to mind your own business, but the new member looks extremely distressed and hesitant.
What is the best way to support the person being pressured?
- Offer the new member a supportive way to leave the situation.
- Wait for the group leaders to finish the activity before checking on them.
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Offer the new member a supportive way to leave the situation.
Hazing and group pressure can quickly become dangerous. You do not need permission from group leaders to help someone, and tradition is never a reason to ignore harm. If you see someone being pressured to consume something, offer them a supportive way to leave. If they are collapsing, unresponsive, or in immediate physical danger, call 911 first. Otherwise, find outside help or create a distraction to help them step away safely.
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Offer a supportive way out or find outside help if a group is pressuring someone.
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“Come with me. You don't have to do this.”
Sources: Hazing Prevention Network, StopHazing